Kiss Kaleidos

I’m proud to say that a friend and I have opened a blog called Kiss Kaleidos for erotic writing. I would be honored to see people joining in as contributors. Surely you can write anonymously, about anything erotic and sexual.

Erotic writings can include fantasies, confessions, stories (both fiction and non-fiction), tips, health, issues, questions, opinion, and many more.

Please visit here the blog here http://kisskaleidos.wordpress.com/ and let me know if you’re interested, you can send me an e-mail or contact me, or leave a comment here.

 

2012 in review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

4,329 films were submitted to the 2012 Cannes Film Festival. This blog had 15,000 views in 2012. If each view were a film, this blog would power 3 Film Festivals

Click here to see the complete report.

I will start the revolution in my bed

I have found this on facebook with “I’ll start the revolution in my bed”. I suppose this is how it should work in the Arab society, if one wants to start a revolution, better start in the bed, and then move it forward.

Nude Pictures

Why men are so obsessed with Nude Pictures?

Yes, we all know these guys, they are everywhere. We tend to meet guys that appear to be nice and we tend to start liking them, and then, they start asking for pictures. Well, obviously when a man asks for a nude picture he has been imagining you naked ever since he has met you, and now finally he thinks you can trust him enough to send him a nude picture of your beautiful body.

I once met a guy who said that it’s not about appearances and he’s not like other guys, if he wants to see nudity only he would go online and actually see. Yeah, Right. OK, so he wants to see ME naked. And how is that different? Why should I send him a picture of myself naked? What is the reason? so he can fulfill his fantasies with my real body (and not the one in his head). I really don’t get it. Is this how men see us? objects? muse for their fantasies? They have to see us naked in order to continue our fantasies? not like I’m against fantasies, I fantasize as well, but for some men, they don’t fantasize about loving us, nor making us happy, but only fantasize how hot we are in their fantasies, and how slutty can we be. That’s amazing actually, I’ve never thought I could be a slut, but wow, I actually AM a slut in their fantasies, and I didn’t have to sleep with them.

“It’s not what under the belt, it’s the whole idea of daring and sending what you won’t send on normal occasions.” That’s what one of them once said. What do you have to say about that?

Oh, and they might stop talking to you if you don’t be so flexible as to send them you a picture of your self naked.

What does a man have to do in order to gain your trust and finally send him some nude pictures of yourself?

 

Protesting the Sharia Law

The Ukrainian feminist organization, FEMEN decided to protest Sharia Law and the treatment of women in Islam by picking up signs, throwing off their clothes, and taking to the streets on Saturday under the banner of Muslim women’s rights.

source: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=377519402278889&set=a.279309025433261.72334.279245495439614&type=1

The uprising of women in the Arab world on facebook

 

A Love Story [part2]

Read part 1

September:
he wondered why she didn’t kiss him.
she said maybe she wasn’t ready.
he said that’s bullshit, and that she’s full of talking.
later on:
he said that she’s the only girl he’s seeing, they should have sex, and she reminded him of himself, etc.
she asked him if he ever thought of falling in love with her, he said he has, for he had feelings.
she held his hand.
he wanted to have sex
he spoke of love, casually.
they kissed

October:no contact

November:
they meet, for him, everything was normal.
he treated her like she’s invisible.
she asked if she was like a whore for him.
he said she had too many expectations,
and he owed her nothing.
she wanted to talk
he didn’t have time
for a whole month he couldn’t even make room for 1 hour
she got upset
he got mad
she had no rights
she was humiliated

still, it’s her fault. that she trusted him and tried to allow him in.
she got hurt, it’s her fault, she had too many expectations.
she had a lot of imagination.
she imagined he’s nice, while he isn’t
she imagined he cares, he doesn’t
she imagined he’s different,
while he was an asshole and full of shit like the rest of them
she imagined he thinks she’s special, well, no she isn’t.
he was mocking her
playing with her feelings for a year
she imagined he respects her, he doesn’t
she imagined and she imagined…
Perhaps she imagined that he told her all that bullshit about accepting her for whom she is and other. Perhaps she imagined the kiss, while it never occurred in reality.While he made no contact with her(May, June, October…), she fantasized about him, while I bet he never even thought about her. he was busy.

Still, it was very important that they never talk about it, and making the girl feel guilty, while the guy claims he hasn’t done anything wrong, for he is perfect, he has no flaws, and of course, he is a good guy.

There are more facts, but the author has no time to share them.

A Love Story [part1]

Here is a story of a man and a woman.

January:
a guy told a girl: I find you interesting and crazy and I want to get to know you. I thought we don’t have barriers and we should be close friends. You can talk to me from the heart and show me what you can’t show anyone. Let us be close.

February:
He said: I want to kiss you. I want you to kiss me. You have desires, why won’t you use them on me? Believe me, you’ll feel great. I will never hurt you. I know how to keep my close friends closer to me. If I hurt you I’ll make it up to you. Open up to me. Desire me with your words and your actions.

March:
He said: If you think I’m only thinking of you sexually don’t speak to me ever again.

April:
He said after they spent a night of passionate kisses (and brief nudity): I thought we get closer, not only physically.
She asked him few questions about their relationship and his feelings toward her and he answered: Don’t get expectations, I can’t commit and if you’re falling for me then we should stop seeing each other. What we have isn’t a relationship, if you find another guy, I don’t care. Don’t be shocked if you see me with other girls.

May: no contact
June: no contact
even though they met a lot
(she called him a hypocritebecause he was acting like one)

July:
The guy wanted to see the girl on skype and added:  show me your boobs.
Later on: send me a picture of yourself, naked. DAREas much as you can.

August:
he said: I’m still waiting for the picture. SEND.
he called her a coward to provoke her.
then he wondered why she was confused and upset.

Part two

Overrated Nudity?

We’re coming across so many nude pictures of women in the Arab society lately. We have a collection of Egyptian, Tunisian, French-Muslim, Palestinian, and many others to be exposed in the future. When it first started and got our attention we loved it and it became a huge step toward sexual revolution in the Arab society. But no, it somehow became a bit overrated. You can wonder how it can become overrated if it is exactly what we need.

The overrating is the thought and the reaction. When it began the people’s reaction was extreme and they all made such a huge fuss around it, which was OK. But now a lot of girls showing nudity and every one is still making a huge fuss around it (including myself, I suppose, for I’m blogging about it). I just thought that after a while people will start accepting it and liking it more than making a huge fuss around it. I thought society will come to an agreement with it and consider it part of its own, but No, nothing will change and even the 100th girl to go naked will make a huge fuss.

On the other hand, some might think that girls who go naked online are only seeking attention. If I post a picture of myself naked, what will you guys think? that I’m trying to share a thought and continue with the revolution of sexual complex? or that I’m trying to get some attention?

Well, I like seeking attention, but I don’t think I’ll do by nudity, at least not for now.

Waiting for Alia? or Me?

After reblogging the article about Aliaa Magda Elmahdy (and her blog) from here I couldn’t imagine that this post will have so many hits. Yes, of course Aliaa became a legend in the #NudePhotoRevolutionary and she became sort of inspiration to a lot of people, and surely a disgrace to others. I’m actually very proud of her, she became some sort of inspiration for me, to do what I always wanted to do and talk about on my blog. My readers (I know I only have few) have noticed that I write a lot about relationships and of course, sex.

Yes, I will talk about sex, even more often in this blog. I hope people won’t judge me and won’t think that I’m doing it to draw attention. I just want to express my opinion and my experience (my lack of experience) with this field. After all, this is what the blog about anyway.

After reading the articles about Aliaa, I had this urgent need to see more of revolutionary women exposing their bodies to the camera. Of course it’s not always possible in our closed minded society. I also had this desire to expose my body. As people might know me, I’m a huge fan of my body, and I think all women should be a huge fan of their body. After all, it’s one of the gifts/possessions in our mortal life. I’m highly considering to expose my body, but surely I will do it without showing my face. Reasons? well, one, I’m not as brave, two, I have family.

I will need more support though to do this step.

(November 23)

 

[ update ]
I’m a huge fan of nudity, and yes some nude photography is pure art for me. Liberating our society (the Arab society) from sexual complexions is one of my hopes and dreams. I wish one day, sexuality wouldn’t become a huge issue and people won’t make such a great fuss about it. I wish that one day people would know that fornication isn’t a sin. And desires are normal and part of who we are as humans, despite of our sex and education.

I support Aliaa and I really like what she had done, and the nude photography on her blog were really nice. I just think it’s insane how people are still obsessed with the idea that she has made such a fuss. And that my blog has been visited by thousands simply because I reblogged an article that has to do with her. This blog had a very small numbers of hits before I published anything about her, and now I think it’s insane that more than a thousand visitors are hitting my blog.

Because of this change and progress of my blog I have decided to stick with my idea of reblogging articles and posts on sex in our society, because it concerns my blog. But I have decided not to take pictures of my nude body as I mentioned earlier in this post, because I don’t want to sell my blog for hits and I don’t want drama. As much as I want to expose my body I just think it’s stupid to show it when there are a lot of stupidity and drama. I’m not that desperate for attention.

(November 25)